How to recognize a toxic compound

How to recognize a toxic compound

Getting into a toxic relationship is really easy, because the enthusiasm, joy and excitement of a storm of emotions and hormones overshadows the true motives and disadvantages of a newly won partner.
What should worry us about
A partner is beginning to interfere dangerously in all spheres of your life. Before you met him, you lived a comfortable life, full of your own habits, which made you happy. You used to go out with your friends, go to your parents, spend time in a cafĂ©, sleep until four o’clock. After falling in love it is natural that you want to spend as much time as possible with your other half, but if your partner forbids you to spend time as you like or makes you feel guilty, something is definitely wrong. You feel controlled and in the end you are afraid to do anything yourself to not disappoint your partner.
Symptoms of a toxic relationship
If you are a person with low self-esteem, you are probably easily manipulated emotionally and it will be hard to find reasons to get rid of a toxic relationship. If you have the following symptoms regularly in your relationship, it is important to see a psychologist or seek help from your loved ones. Remember, you should be your first priority.
If your partner blames you for your problems, avoids talking about difficult topics and his only form of communication is screaming – go away.
If he cannot admit to his mistake, criticizes, uses emotional, financial or sexual blackmail – go away.
If you feel that you feel better when he is not at home, you are afraid to talk about your feelings, you prefer to talk about your dreams with someone other than your partner – go away.
If your family does not like him/her, and your friends directly tell you what they think about him/her, and you still have to justify him/her to others and you do not want him/her to meet people you care about – go away.
If your partner doesn’t respect your views, your values are very different, you have completely different sexual temperaments and if your partner directly tells you that he loves you for one thing only, leave him alone.
Your future is the most important thing
Don’t be afraid to be alone. In fact, you are also lonely in a toxic relationship, even if you don’t want to admit it. Start surrounding yourself with people who are your real support and don’t be afraid. In a few years you will thank yourself for the good decision.

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