How to build a happy relationship

How to build a happy relationship

A trivial question for married couples with several decades of experience, completely new for couples who just got together. How to build a happy relationship that will last for the rest of your life?
Awareness of love
Building a relationship is really hard work. Whether you’ve been together for a long time or only at the beginning of your journey together, it doesn’t matter. You have to try to be the best version for yourself twenty-four hours a day.
People in a relationship must understand the fundamental difference between a relationship as seen through the eyes of the media, advertising and the Internet, and one that has to face reality. As the 21st century is the age of fast careers, depression and addictions, we need to focus on building lasting relationships with the people who really deserve it.
Winning the routine
Everyday life is real. Relationships are not based solely on beautiful moments, dating, going to the cinema, going on vacation under palm trees, short longings – mainly fighting everyday life, struggling with troubles, paying bills, Saturday cleaning, fatigue after work… If you do not manage to put together a common everyday life, you lose a lot. A relationship you have for a few good days and consent sex is a bad relationship.
Do not allow lack of communication. Talk to each other as much as possible. Let it not be a professional duty for you to “buy rolls” or “pay your bills” or “what for dinner”. You have to share your thoughts and discuss life with each other, because sooner or later one of the parties will be indifferent and withdraw.
It is better to argue properly than to dispose of everything with ignorance and silence. Arguing proves that you both care about a good relationship and want to fit in.
Sex is also a glue.
Show your tenderness as often as you can. This is especially true for women who, after many years of marriage, forget that men also need it. Maybe they are not aware of it, or maybe they have transferred all their feelings to the children. Touch is extremely important.
A man who cannot count on sex from his beloved woman suffers. Never make it happen. For a man it is a completely different experience than for a partner, because men express their emotionality in this way (they cannot do otherwise). Lack of sex is a proof of lack of emotional communication and a sense of rejection.
Try to take care of your pleasures in bed. Partners are happier together when each partner genuinely likes sex.

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